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When I was a little girl, I had a babysitter who would White guilt take us to her parents house. She took care of a few local kids, some of whom we knew, and one of them was a little black boy who I was friends with.
I repeated this story to my babysitter, who got very angry with me. She told me that her mother would never say such White guilt thing, so obviously I was making the story up, and that I was a very bad little girl for doing so. I was so ashamed of myself that I never repeated this story.
I wrote an essay a few days ago where I claim all white people are racist, all men are sexist, all straight people are homophobic, etc.
Many of my friends disagreed with such assertions, and they were right to. Not all white people are racist — white children, if they are young enough, are not racist. But, when I think about it, that belief probably traces back to a moment like the one with my babysitter.
They blamed it on me, and I believed them. I guess I still believe them. The indoctrination of white children to turn against their innate feelings has a long history with respect to racism. Nell Irvan Painter, a retired professor emeritus of American History from Princeton, talks about the effects on children of both slave and master who witness slavery.
She describes the story of a white adult who had learned how to beat his slaves: John Nelson was a Virginian who spoke in about his own coming of age and this system of triangles. He says, when he was a child, when his father beat their slaves, that he would cry and he would feel for the slave who was being inflicted with violence.
He would feel almost as if he himself were being beaten, and he would cry. You have to learn to do this, yourself. Additionally complicating this was the fact that, due to the common practice of the household patriarch raping his female slaves, it is highly likely that white children often witnessed the beating of their own family members.
In order to maintain the institution of slavery, children had to learn to act out what they were told and ignore what they felt, and so childrearing methods to numb children to their own emotions were developed.
As the culturally established ethics around slavery and race changed, the official message we taught children changed, but the means through which we taught them did not. Both John Nelson and I learned that there are unquestionable rules around race relations that must be obeyed, and these rules are to some degree disconnected from our larger system or logic or morality.
Race is treated as an exception, and this perceived exceptionalism stops white people from making deep progress in their emotional attitudes. One was that it was unacceptable for me to state, plainly, my observations or questions around race so I kept quiet on topics that confused me.
I also grew to feel that I was inherently bad because a I was personally blamed for repeating racist things from my environment and I lacked the maturity to understand where these ideas were coming from and b I was implicitly included in groups that were obviously exhibiting racist behavior, so I assumed I was like them.
As I matured, these feelings of inherent badness persisted, but my sophistication with respect to my own denial increased. If I complimented black people, for instance, or expressed outrage at racial injustices, my feelings of shame around my own presumed racism would be lessened. We have reached the point that many white people are loudly, and vocally expressing their support of progressive stances around race relations.
Guilt implies an understanding of the harm you have caused someone, and a desire to act in a way to mitigate its effects. So, if someone volunteers at a homeless shelter so she can tell herself and others what a good person she is, she is acting out of narcissism.
However, narcissism is usually a cover for a fundamentally poor self image.
Additionally, when confronted with evidence that something she did makes her a bad person, she is likely to act out in rage or denial see narcissistic rage. The big problem with white narcissism, is while it may motivate some positive behavior, it also serves as a massive defense system that preserves subconscious racist behaviors.
So, they act in many ways to counter this on a high level expressing anti racist views, shaming other people perceived as racist, maybe protesting or something, etc. They will deny it, say they were misinterpreted, get angry, maybe apologize without any deeper understanding of what they did, because it is painful for the to touch that place that secretly worries they might be racist.
What it is very difficult for people acting out of white narcissism to do is empathize with people who have experienced racism. If someone brings up an incident with racism in it, their number one concern as someone desperately trying to cover their own racism, even to themselves will be how can I show that I am not like this racist person.
Further proof that racism is alive and well in Respect for the companies that took action.Last week an article was published in the September issue of the The Atlantic titled "The Coddling of the American Mind.".
The goal of the article was to show that college students (a.k.a.
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1 THE ANATOMY OF WHITE GUILT The paper entitled “The Emotional Lives of White People” describes the variety of feelings we have as white people including fear, hatred, indifference, amnesia, anesthesia, denial, loneliness, anger, and hopelessness. White guilt is the individual or collective guilt felt by some white people for harm resulting from racist treatment of ethnic minorities by other white people both historically and currently in the United States and to a lesser extent in Canada, South Africa and the United Kingdom.
White guilt has been described as one of the psychosocial costs of racism for white individuals along with.
White guilt is the individual or collective guilt felt by some white people for harm resulting from racist treatment of ethnic minorities by other white people both historically and currently in the United States and to a lesser extent in Canada, South Africa and the United Kingdom.